It is the responsibility
of the more evolved person
to move any relationship
rewardingly forward.
Once we become adults,
we can freely look with clarity
at situations that arise
within a relationship
and commit to constant
and healthy growth.
Otherwise,
we end up bored,
angry,
resentful,
stuck eating/drinking too much,
hiding behind our routines,
or collecting cats!
The only way to
experience a magical relationship
is for both parties
to strive towards it.
Once both parties
agree that neither of them
are trying egotistically
to get “their way”,
then the coast is clear
for the magic to happen.
On one issue,
one person may be the more evolved.
On another issue,
the other could be the more evolved.
You ARE in relationship
because you respect
and honor
how the other
lives their life.
Right?
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I stand confidently ALONE,
in belief,
that it IS possible for a couple
to realize their individual dreams
and to stay committed
to a loving partner,
even amidst the changes
that are necessary
for individual growth.
So,
if your Sugar-Baby-Honey-Pie
says that there is something
that he/she needs to do
to stay whole,
you best pay attention,
because wholeness
is a rare gift
and if they see it
in the distance,
they ARE going to move towards it>>>
VISA VERSA
If you choose to dig your heels in
and refuse to address the other’s needs,
then you are putting
your personal needs/fears before
the needs of the relationship,
and are maybe just scared-shitless
that your comfortable little life
will be disturbed.
VISA VERSA
There are no role models
for this clarity in relationship.
There is no history
of this fluidity in love.
We have to choose a partner
who can look beyond him/herself,
and make a commitment
to this new height of love.
My hunch is
that THESE relationships
are few,
and far,
between.
The GOOD NEWS is
that Wholeness Alone
by choice
is Better
than being
STUCK Together
out of complacency.
I can’t do THAT
and stay whole.
Next.